Question by Brooke: I don’t know what to do anymore?
To start, I met a guy from America in 2006 and I moved out of my parents place when I was 18 and moved to the city, got my own apartment and was going to school. Because my boyfriend at the time was an immigrant, he couldn’t go to work or school (because he got denied for both). So I attended school while he more or less played video games at home all day. This went on for a year and then he proposed to me, we got married and filed for sponsorship. In total, I went to school (Nursing) for three years, while he stayed home and played games. He had no money, and I had very little but I still pulled us through. Got him anything he wanted, always put him first, if neither of us had food, I would not eat for a while so that he could. Anyway, once we got married, we moved to a new place and he got a job. Now that he has a job, and I am almost finished school but have the school loans to pay back I get less money than he does. I usually run out of money after paying the rent and bills and he has plenty there.
My problem is that he makes me feel guilty if I ask for five dollars to go get some laundry detergent or shampoo or something. He says what did you do with your money? I said aren’t we married and agreed to share out finances? And why is it that I carried him for three years but never said anything like that to him, never made him feel bad, I always understood there was a reason why he couldn’t give me any money or help out, but not he’s a manager at a store and thinks he’s this big shot guy and treats me like crap when it comes to money. And he always brings it up. Like ‘oh I bought you this and that the other day and you never bought me anything.’ Or ‘I feel like I’m always the one having to pay for everything and you don’t give anything to me. Even though every time I go out with the girls I always bring him home stuff or think of him and say oh he’ll like that and get it, even though I don’t have a lot of money for myself.
I guess I’m wondering how I can talk to him about it. Because everytime I do he just gets angry and always makes me feel like crap or like I’m always looking for money when I’m not and he always thinks that he’s the one carrying us through when really I am. This has been going on for four years now and I guess I’m just finally tired of it.
I probably sound whiny, I just don’t understand how someone can be like this. I don’t know if any of this made sense and I dont feel like I got my point across but I guess I’ll post it anyway.
Or .. it’s for real. It’s okay that you can’t read Adolfus Hitler .. maybe I’ll find an adult who can actually help.
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Answer by Adolfus Hitler
Dont write a novel…… be short and precise,,,,,, i didnt even read this but i suggest you are a troll
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