Question by Jeorge’s Mommy? ?ï?: My son’s father is frustrating me so much right now, how do I just breathe and let it go?
So it was Halloween and I hadn’t really heard from my ex since the 17th of October (the last time he saw my son). I only talked to him briefly when he said he was going to be at a bunch of parties this weekend. Well usually if he wants to see him he will text me at some point on the saturday. Well I never heard from him this weekend which doesn’t surprise me at all and then I get a text on halloween at about 2pm asking if he could come get him for an hour to show his parents his costume. Well it would have been alright if he had given me some sort of notice because we had plans all day (the zoo, nap, dinner and trick or treating). So I tried my best to work with him and said they could come by before we left for dinner. Well only he showed up and he told me his parents were too busy or something. Well my son won’t go to him anymore, doesn’t say dada, and gets really upset when he tries to hold him. And then when he went to leave he said bye and my son went up to him and said “buh bye see you” in an angry voice and proceeding to hit him as hard as he could. My son isn’t a hitter. My heart breaks for this little boy that understands more than I think people give him credit for

He’s also been lying about money. He lives with his parents and makes over $ 40,000 a year. I’m in school and living off student loans and scholarships. He came around today (halloween) with an eyebrow piercing, new tattoo, new nike runners,and was telling me about him going to a club. But just last week he told me he was poor. He has only paid $ 150 total. I’ve started child support papers but he ignored the letter. How do I not get frustrated, heartbroken, and angry with him?

Best answer:

Answer by animefan
hun, all you can do now is do the child support papers. He can’t just ignore them because someone will be sent to his house.

Perhaps its time just to let it go. He isn’t worth the fuss over.

In all honesty, i’d just cut him out of your son’s life at this point.

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Question by Annie: Does a creditor have the right to call you or threaten to call your employer when they are already?
calling you at home?…I defaulted on a pay day loan–but have been making payments–they are now threatening to call my employer unless I pay it off immediatel……..and what gets me–is they tell me they will reloan again?????????

Best answer:

Answer by Go Cubs Go!!
They can call you at home but not your employer.

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I got two payday loans right before filing chapter 7 bankruptcy to help with the court chapter 7 filing fee. I filed Pro Se. The loans both totaled $500 dollars . Do I have to repay (or reaffirm )them since they were less than the $750. 00? . Also taking the loans less than the 70 days of filing the bankruptcy . I did not know this before I filed . Only after doing research did I discover this.