A Disagreement With My Girlfriend is Hurting Our Relationship (about the future, jobs, ect)?
Sunday, November 28th, 2010 question from Ed Nygma : a disagreement with my friend Hurting Our relationship is (about the future, jobs, ect) ?
Okay, here’s the deal. I applied in the education field to get. Sometimes I’m not sure that’s what I want to do what I do. I doubt the time of my suitability for the job among others. I am capable, I just have bad days where I question. But education seems the best solution for mich.Also I applied to get in and the department at the University denied me. I was first on the waiting list and have an 80 average. It is not for them to do so unusual because of other stories I use three or four times before she got on one but my girlfriend is freaked out to learn. She thinks I want to guide their lives. She has for the last few days, either avoided me or argue that I have to do something different. Most of these arguments in their say hurtful things degenerate. I do hesitate sometimes, but it had nothing to do with me abgelehnt.Sie seems as if she was on the verge of reeling me. This is a girl I love and care for deeply. But apparently I’m distracting her life. I should be able to finish school in 3 years, but that’s not enough for them. It will have a job and constantly Mortgage thinking about buying a house (the prices are high here) and the payment. She harps on me a lot about what was for a student loan I by that time and how I need to be in a position that I would like morgage.And help beitragen.Aber I do not think the cave and allow her to decide what is right me. It is not their decision. Sometimes I am undecided, but that (along with my procrastination) is something I’ve worked for. I feel like I’m always would be mugged if I walk into a room because she always brings it. I know she thinks about it a lot. She’s even talked to me about retirement and children. I’m 21 and still a few years left in school. It seems like a lot to have to think about when is the time frame for me so far away. You though.Was graduates next semester I can do Best Answer:
response from Elizabeth
In my opinion, you need to find some soul and re-evaluate your relationship to do. Only by reading what you wrote, it’s not like your girlfriend loves you sound the way you love them. In a relationship there should be an equal amount of give and take. The fact that it affects you rap about it and it ends with her saying hateful / hurtful things is not a good sign. With relationships, you both have the right to hold opinions / views about the other acts, but you yourself in check, if you must discuss these things. Just because you are in a relationship and love is no need tact, when to lose delicate / sensitive issues. It must be right there beside you, saying do not worry, you get it, that it may take only a few times. You must be supportive of your dreams, and calm, that if it feels “right” to you, then it must do. Remember, this is only my opinion so take it with a grain of salt, but it seems to me like you’re right … it is on the verge of leaving you, but she pulls it out and try to make it seem like there is something that you have done that, it has forced itself is made of the relationship. How long have you two are together? The bottom line is the decision is yours whether you like it or not there gf. You have to do what is best for you, but also taking into account what their needs and wants. It does not look like it is keeping your needs and desires in mind, though sound. And that’s a shame. I would suggest that you sit down and a “professional” and “cons” list as it would be if you 1) set to be together, and 2) if they were separate. Give him some good thoughts. Write to read with your girl. See what she thinks. Ask her if she’s happy with your relationship. Are there things that would change it, and if so, what are they? See how you feel their answers. Discuss what you both want for the future. They want a future together? You are on the same page? You need both really want the same or similar things and have open communication about these things. If you both see the same thing at the end of the Tunnell, then ultimately you can use both on the ground. If you see two totally different things, then you have to do a lot of work. I wish you good luck. Relationships are hard work and they take, but you have both to be ready, do not always have things their way. Give and take. Love and Lachen.P.S. If you are unsure about education, please log on to substitute teach. This gives you an idea and make it a little clearer for you. Even if you do not want to enter into the education program, you can always teach. You need to go only the non-traditional certification path. Check out your state’s Department of Education site online.
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