question of Gaga Momma : What would you do in this situation ?
My family, which includes my husband (30), daughter (3), son (14 months), I have lived (27 and pregnant) and a dog and cat with my mother for the last 9 months. We went from two to work in factories during the pregnancy with my daughter to lose our jobs within 4 weeks of my return to the labor market if it was 1 year old. In the last 3 years I have at home, because there are no jobs pay enough for me to work and pay a babysitter stayed. Then the recession, my husband worked in construction, lost several jobs through layoffs, let gos, and lack of employment. There are no jobs in our town of 30 000 in Ontario, we have to go not a car to a different city to work (actually parked there, because we can not afford). We made one month in 1400 to its EI expires in 2 days and child tax benefits, which is 575 per month. Living with my mother, we pay some bills we owe that to $ 300 (memory for all of our stuff, own phone, and a law that has to be paid off), $ 500 to rent my mother (she claims, we are basically paying nothing), $ 400 for food, claiming my mother as a rule that attaches to the $ 600 per week is not enough for them. (Rent is 875, hydro power is about 140 for all gas 120 in the winter, perhaps 150 in the colder months, it has a car payment of 350, insurance 150 per month, over 140 personal loans, gas for work about 30 per week, cable / phone / internet is about 140 per month). She showed me what her because I told her that we pay too much pay. I can accept that we added about what they normally are not paid, but they want more. Not only did her BF comes here on weekends and eats our food, pays nothing, and both of us to cut jokes (Smuckers is calling us because we are always in a jam). I can not even afford birth control, that is always pregnant. Christmas is coming and we will have $ 700 a week from today, which has some, as modified for all the bills. I mentioned that I would either have to get presents this week and pay my mother on 20 Baby Lease or call the church so that my children will have presents. I was spending over $ 200 on all this Christmas that my children, my mom and her BF, my grandmother and my sister and baking goodies are for my nieces and nephews think. She made some complaint about not being able to pay, water power and need to. Then she makes a comment about us making so much money and with the aid of a charity. It undermines my parents with my children, and verbally attacks me eat my food. I do not know what to do. We try for housing, one has 6 apply – wait 12 months, leaving my husband in January for 3 months basic training for the Army and we would then be financially fine. There is no one else to help us and the best in town, she said, can do, is to provide emergency housing for 2 weeks, then bus tickets for a shelter that families take in a larger city. I live in a room that is 20 feet 10 feet with a partition. We have crammed 3 beds, is in the back that about 10 by 10 feet and the rest is our living room. My mother has 4 bedrooms upstairs and smoke in the house and does not care if my kids are there or that I’m pregnant. In the past 15 months my father died and his wife have everything (not that I am nothing but a relationship that I never wanted to), my paternal grandfather died my grandmother died and my paternal aunt died. I’m seriously at my end and move have no idea what I’m doing other than those for social welfare for 2 months or go to a shelter and let my husband go to his father’s cabin, until he can leaves. My mother drives us to move to where? They want money, I have 700 to my name. What on earth do I do? I can not even give advice for all the deaths I have had in the past. I’m seriously on the verge of a nervous breakdown or something. Start Not only that, but to recognize me when I really stressed and the doctor told me I could have a possible miscarriage when I am too stressed and my body reacts. I have ulcers, depression and anxiety disorders. There are no jobs here just before Christmas, not that much in a recession. My mother and her bf seem to believe that it is easy to get a job. What on earth am I to do Best Answer:

reply LJUVLIG
try condensing your story a little, so that people will actually read.

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question of crystals : If I asked you to move a mountain, what would you say ?
If you were asked to move a mountain, what would you say? That it is completely impossible? But what if you did it by the bucket full? And what if there were a million of us? Would not it be possible to move the mountain, or at least make a significant dent into it? What if I told you that there is a whole range of mountains? Would you say that it is impossible and give up? What if you voted on a mountain of work? The mountains are children die from lack of food and clean water, diseases such as AIDS, destroy families, because they can not afford the 61 cents per day for the 2 small pills that they live, can not walk children to school because they are trying to find food are – never make enough to a future with hope, among many other mountains erzogen.Wollen They say they are too far away to help? Let me take you closer (http://www.hoopsofhope.org/index.cfm, www.worldvision.ca, www.waterforpeople.org, http://www.aidswalkforlife.ca/, www.Kiva.org, http: / / www.worldforworld.org / index.asp, http://www.joinred.com/red/ # impact_135). Do you want to say, they are not yours? If I were a child who was dying of hunger and place him outside the front door when you would say the door you, “you are me,” and close the door open or it would bring help? Say you will, They have no money? Who said you needed money? I said you needed a shovel. A 9 year old boy decided in the USA, combat AIDS (laugh? “I do not want this child makes me embarrassed how much I try). In 2004 he took his basketball in the gym on World AIDS Day 2057 and shot free throws for the 2057 children who would die of AIDS this day, while he was at school to symbolize. The school raised nearly $ 3,000 dollars, the children of AIDS with food, shelter, clothing, education, and finally a medical test orphaned provided. Last year over 200 locations have “Hoops for Hope”. In 5 years, his idea raised almost a million dollars this year, surpassing the million-dollar Marke.Sie be asking, how? There were so many opportunities, both in the world and in your own Gemeinde.Sie through local fund-raising (Hoops for Hope or similar), you could volunteer (time and effort) in a homeless shelter, or on the local charity. You could dig through your closet and save to give unused clothing to the local economy. You could send Christmas shoeboxes (Operation Christmas Child – Samaritan’s Purse). You could have a child (about $ 41/mth by World Vision) sponsor, or if you want a bit less $ commitment, World Vision has a gift catalog terms, decided to send families most in need (3 chicken can bring a family from of poverty). Want to see the same dollar to help many people? Try micro-loans, loan you $ 25 for the loan of your choice, pay them back there and you can give it again! (Www.Kiva.org is a good one). The roads are endlos.Die world is under siege. This is your call to arms Best Answer.

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question of Amber : How bad would my credit card
I do not want to pay to get online, lol I’m 19 years aussehen.Ich alt.Ich (always lived with roommates and my friend’s parents or my parents) no bills in my name, nor do I have to rent a house in my name . I have no Kreditkarte.Ich have a debit card, which I overdrafted a few times but all have gelohnt.Ich a $ 250 medical bill, to be paid within 30 days must (I can do), otherwise it will angerechnet.Ich it against my credit was no Auto.Ich’ve never seen a loan from anywhere getroffen.Also, what do you think? ! Serious and helpful answers only please, I also make monthly payments of $ 150 on my laptop Best Answer.

response from Frank
Get a credit card. Use it instead of your debit card. Pay is on Zeit.Das you a big boost, because you have not much of a credit history, provided vorhanden.Du’re not the numeric result, but you can download your report, which give you an idea of what to actually see there . (The medical bill is not likely to report not many places where you pay on time; .. you only report if you are late) http://www.ftc.gov/freereports

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question by Frank J : What would you do in my place
I’m still trying to figure out what to do to go back to school or nicht.College, Web Design: Pros:-We earn a second diploma-debt would be for another 8 months verschoben.-added expertise, hopefully more chances to work to finden.Contra: More debt-.-.. Me could not take another loan .-.. They could not register as late .-.. If they do not give me enough credit, I can not pay rent, and substitution Nahrung.Ich perhaps not good for your career. (. Personalitywise and skillwise) instructor-peers make fun of my last year of Arbeitslosigkeit.Arbeiten at Harveys: Pro: May earn money pay off debt could, until money for the next Jahr.-More movement than sitting in school all day .- Could learn to live with people interagieren.Contra:-I feel like an idiot there arbeiten.Soziale environmental, anti-social Mich. must-continue to rest for family, friends from Fail-Leben.Fettig.Ich should probably get some antidepressants tomorrow. Maybe try to set up MRI brain scan and ask fatigue, memory loss, lack of appetite ask about confidence-building Programme.Aber what do you think I should do about the work or school? Should I ask if the course is full? (I have not wanted to make my hopes, because the school may not even be an option I have left it rather late, I never think ahead..) Best Answer:

response of vortex
Tough it at Harveys for another year, be diligent and pay your debts then save money and go to school next year. Yes it is a crappy option, but you would rather be able to eat, or learn in the classroom for 8 hours a day and starve?

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question of nickay53 : What would you do in this situation ?
According to my bf and his sister, that my best friend of her mother is a real controlling bitch who run their lives as my best friend just a baby that they accept to see me with the baby, but her mother had called her and liked to tell them they had to go to her place with the baby cause she wanted to spend time with her, and my friend told her that she plans for me, but her mother said I was hard on poor me see my granddaughter now available here this moment. Now I have never met, where their mother, I spoke to her a few times online and it seems like a nice person they tell me its just a front hell or mutual friends who say, known to them more to me that they She is a really big haben.Nun my bf is 6 years older than I, where all adult he 25 in 19 and he is still living at home, mainly because he has to go to school and has to pay off his student loans and because its mother keeps him on a tight ball and chain and does not want to take it off, but he is planning to move soon to pull at me but somehow his mother rules as your not allowed to talk about your girlfriend made against me because I never to see you since you were either at work or at school! He works at night and comes home in the early morning hours and his mother do not allow even him to use the computer to talk to me because she is awake, and it does not allow people on the computer when she is awake, although this contributed to this bezahlen.Laut his sister, my best friend whose son is also a big mama’s boy and is litterly fear they piss off, because they can be a great dog, he does everything his mother told him, as if she wants him home to do on his day stay, spending time with her, he does it, even if he wants to be together with me, because he is afraid of her that he litterly fear them in the manner or form, the fine I like a man who respects his mother but had to spend the same cross as I find it extremely annoying them in all of our time, and I get cut wait to see him because I know that he does not cheat, he definantly not the type of fraud he is only 1 other friend next to me and that was his first girlfriend, died after vomnun in a car accident for 2 years me and him are getting good deals, but I think from the second, it is of all the things I his mother and father, as would the not the kind of girl, people listened allowed on the entire hike it, and if they tried everything with I speak litterly and tell her off, but as I noted screw in front of my boy is a big boy and doesn’t mommys they want to piss off or upset her so I know if I use this shit, he would not be happy, so has its production, I ask myself whether I have engaged with it to get Best answer :

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Question by Jessica: Would you be annoyed if your FMIL did this?
Let me first say my boyfriend and I are not engaged, but we`re seriously considering it and his family is aware of that (we want to make sure our relationship is solid enough for that kind of commitment). I`m asking about FMIL`s because this is the relationship we will probably share within the next year or two, and this WILL continue to remain a problem unless if I broach the subject.

My boyfriend`s mother (actually his stepmother, he doesn`t know his real mother) has never been particularly happy about my boyfriend being with me because I`m “too frugal“, from Eastern Canada, and I have very “strange ideas“ (here meaning, I very much agree with existential teachings and I`m atheist). The rest of his family on his father`s side I get along with really well, and they constantly bash her when she`s not around because she`s abrasive, nosey, and has put almost everyone in that family into the red when she refuses to pay back personal loans.

Despite all of this, I usually stick up for her and point out that nothing is as it seems and she probably means well. However, there are two things she does that are driving me to the point of not being so inclined to stick up for her. One, she treats my boyfriend like a child- they still receive some of his mail though he moved in with me over a year ago, and she opens all of his bills and then calls to lecture us about our financial responsibilities (keeping in mind, my credit is excellent and we`ve never been late on anything, while she is flagrantly financially irresponsible). She also likes to talk to him and his two older brothers (and occasionally myself) like very small children who have no concept of the real world- his oldest brother is 26!

The thing that possibly makes me the most angry is that she has this intense friendship with my boyfriend`s most recent ex-girlfriend, which I find extremely inappropriate. I think I`m justified in feeling this way because this woman (who is JUST like his mother) spent every cent he had without contributing any money to the relationship, gave him an STI which may have left him sterile, and who to this day spreads slanderous lies about him to anyone who`ll listen. I can`t do anything about his trashy ex I realize, as she`s her own psycho-woman- but I need to find a way to reconcile this with my FMIL.

Am I justified in being annoyed about being made to feel like I’m terrible partner for my boyfriend, while she loves this woman who almost ruined his life?

Thanks!

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Answer by handyman
I wouldn’t walk into that hornet’s nest for a zillion dollars. Make sure you don’t marry this man unless you’re planning to live far, far away. You and she are going to push each other’s buttons for the rest of your life if not.

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question of bkaconsulting : I need a personal loan, but I have bad credit, I would pay this debt in 1 year. 10K max min 5k.?
I’ve Wells Fargo, Citigroup, tried wise ect. All declined. I could go to these payday loan places, but I would pay for it forever and even more bad loans. I’m so desperate, I went to see even loan sharks. If I live not find a loan soon I will everything I have worked so hard for verlierenFür arrears on mortgages in Canada. Recently went back after work sick for 6mths Best Answer:

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question of twisted : what would you do …?
1000.00 if you would you pay the rent or you want to pay a loan? (I would pay rent), but you only have until your next payday 1000.00 …. Best answer:

response from Jerry Curl
The loan would be better to avoid conflicts of interest, but if you are late on the rent you may be a late fee will be changed. So, whichever first is due, I think.

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i do not have bad credit i just need cash fast.
does anyone know the average rate in california?

Banks, credit unions, and other creditors entice people to use their contracts and then charge exorbitant fees trapping many unwary people and increasing their interests rates. Companies change their terms without notice. People, in some cases, end up paying the equivalent of 600% interest rate per annum.

Would you join me in a boycotting credit card purchases?
Should we blame the exploited or the banks and regulators allowing exploitation?
If enough of us stopped playing the credit card game, do you suppose some would be better off?